When it comes to how to attract women, men are far too proud to accept their faults than women.
This is one factor that puts women off, and perhaps one of the top contributing factors to break up.
As a man, inability to identify some of these easy mistakes with women can lead to a very unhealthy relationship, if you are lucky to get into one.
But as the adage goes, men are like fire: quick to ignite and quick to extinguish, the converse is also true for women; slow to boil but steady at boiling point.
To boil the water, you’ve got to grab her attention first. You have to apply all the chemistry to win her trust because any relationship that is not built on trust is doomed from the word ‘go’.
This is where most men make fundamental mistakes that keep them from getting the girl.
Common mistakes with women that every man should avoid
If you search Google with queries such as ‘What do women want?’ You will be surprised at the millions of results that will pop up.
But you don’t need pop psychology to win over a woman. You don’t need to be a millionaire either. Understanding some of these mistakes men make with women will get you the girl and brighten your relationship.
Let’s get down to the mistakes and the ways to prevent them.
1. Buying her too many gifts
Gifts are good, but let’s not forget that too much of something is poisonous.
When you nourish her with gifts, you are sending a message that you need to buy her affection because you don’t think you are good enough for her.
Some women will misconstrue your good intentions with a twisted attempt to manipulate her.
Be smart. Save your romantic gifts for life after marriage.
2. Revealing your cards
I feel empty without you. I seriously admire you. Am so deeply in love with you.
You don’t have to tell her this all the time, or else you will start bugging her and things will be over even before they get started.
Your presence alone should be enough to communicate this message. She should figure it out alone. And if she doesn’t, let her wonder–and that’s what will make her attracted to you.
3. Making someone or something else your priority
This is one of those mistakes with women that can ignite fire in relationships.
Feminine energy responds to praise and adoration.
She needs your attention. She also needs a compliment, conscious focus, and a feeling that she is loved.
If you cannot offer this, be prepared to remain single longer than you expected!
4. Fearing what she thinks of you
Fearing a woman’s approval is a mistake that steers relationships down the path to break up.
It instills the feeling of inferiority complex upon men.
It makes a man a slave to a woman’s approval.
Come to think of this. If you lust after a woman’s approval, who becomes dominant and who becomes submissive.
Exactly. You become submissive while she dominates. And submissive men don’t attract women. Dominant men do.
Instead of giving in to every demand, you should face her like a gentleman. The secret here is to become fearless with women.
5. Not listening
Women want to be listened to. They often say a lot more than men, and the least you can do even if not interested is to give a listening ear.
Women build bonds through conversation. They talk to connect.
Therefore, simple words like “tell me more” can show a lot of interest. They can make her see you care.
They can make her see that you understand her, and you are willing to do even more, like sweeten the deal.
When you are interacting with a woman, she naturally tries to read your personality, attitude, behavior, charisma, and every trait in you that either gets you close or make you the prince charming she’s been looking for.
And this is how dating works.
Remember, the first impression is the last impression.
Presenting the very best of you at this stage determines whether there will be a next chance or not
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