Approach and Talk to Women Easily (How To Talk To Women Masterclass)
Imagine having the ability to approach any beautiful woman in any place. Whether you are in the grocery store, Starbucks getting a cappuccino or filling the car with gas there are constantly chances to meet, attract and seduce amazingly attractive girls. Having said that, if like lots of men you lack the self-confidence to approach in these situations then the majority of these opportunities are going to pass you by.
Forget about corny pickup lines, gimmicks and routines. These may work in a club when the booze is flowing and women expect a little peacocking from the guys. In normal day-to-day circumstances, you have to have the ability to approach like the warm, intelligent and ‘genuine’ individual that you are.
This special day game masterclass deals with ‘cold approach’. This is where you discover the skills to directly approach and talk to any woman you are attracted to. You will create the inner belief to conquer approach anxiety and make an incredibly positive impact with any girl you want. Regardless of where she is, who she is with or what she is doing.
- – Ways to eliminate approach anxiety
- – Exactly what to say and how to say it
- – The best ways to seal the deal
- – Switching rejection into a positive
- – Undercover FBI level body language tricks
- – Be the very best thing that happened to her that day
- – Top secret day time direct approach strategies that get the job done
The Rules of Engagement
You may think that hot women are getting approached by guys all the time. However, the reality is often a long way from this common assumption. Most guys simply do not have the balls to lay themselves open like that. Even in the more traditional dating battlegrounds such as bars and clubs most guys need a few cold glasses of Dutch courage before they will approach a girl.
This book is not dealing with these environments but rather the daytime opportunities to meet beautiful girls that come and go every day. These situations are real and often cause guys real challenges to face their fears. Unlike a nightclub where there is an expectation on the guys to hit on the girls, this is different. You are really stepping out there and making a bold statement in a non-traditional environment.
Virtually every woman expects to get hit on in a nightclub; in fact, many would-be highly offended if they didn’t. Think about it from her point of view. Imagine you spent hours getting ready, planning every detail from the combination of colors in your outfit to how you are going to wear your hair, what accessories and jewellery to put with the dress and then how best to do your makeup and hair to fit in with the plan. Then after all that effort, not one guy finds you attractive enough to try and pick you up.
Us guys don’t really have a mental concept of this because it’s generally a lot different for us. Perhaps a shower, shave, nice shirt and our favorite trousers are the most effort many will ever get to. We are more likely to feel this type of rejection when we are already in a relationship.
How To Talk To Women
I remember a few years ago, my girlfriend at the time had arranged for us to visit an art gallery with her work colleagues. I knew the dress code was only smart casual but I decided I wanted to impress her. I visited the hairdresser, had a professional shave at a local Turkish barber, I picked out my favorite suit, pressed it and matched it up with a stylish pair of Italian leather shoes. I finished the look off with my most elegant Breitling watch and inspected myself in the mirror.
I will hold my hand up and say that when I am in a relationship I can lean toward a fairly constant jeans and a tee look. So I was feeling pretty proud of the way I had dressed up for my girl and I had expectations of a great reaction from her was high.
So, when I knocked on her front door and stood back to take in the flood of praise and admiration I have to admit to being a little more than crushed when she didn’t even notice. She glanced at me and said ‘oh good you are here, let’s get going so we can find a parking space’. This is the sort of rejection that women open themselves up to every day.
We will deal with approaching women when they are in social mindset in a different book.
Right here and now we are concentrating on approaching girls when they are perhaps not expecting it or consciously prepared for approaches. In my personal opinion, this puts you in a much stronger position than when you are competing with all the other guys (in a nightclub for instance) and when her defences are raised.
What I am saying is that the woman waiting to be served at the bar in a club expects to get hit on, the girl picking out pasta sauce in the supermarket doesn’t – and it is this status quo that we use to our advantage.
The seven secrets
To approach in daylight, non-social environments there are 7 important elements to consider.
I am going to go into each step in detail but the first thing to be aware of is that each point is important and if you want to be successful you can’t afford to be weak in any area.