Attracting Women With Pure Self Confidence
Attracting Women & How Fear Gets In The Way
Attracting Women: When guys turn up for a Powerfully Confident Bootcamp they are often shaking with fear. The brave decision to attend this extreme and unusual form of personal development training seemed like a good idea at the time. When it was just a payment window on a computer screen.
But then in the cold light of day, when we are standing face to face. Many guys want nothing more than to tell me to keep the money and just let them go home. To date only one student has bailed out. This is testament to just how important this training is to the many men who go through the process with me each year.
A Powerfully Confident Bootcamp is a two-day training program with me and no more than two other like minded students. We start with a process that I call the ‘Deep Dive’. This is where we talk about fear and those intense feelings of anxiety. The sensations that prevent guys from laying it all on the line and going after the girl they really want.
After I listen to stories that are often very common and similar to one and another. I start the Bootcamp with the bad news. I inform my students that one day, no matter what they do they are going to die.
Regardless of the decisions they make there will come a time when all the things that they worried about will mean nothing to anybody.
Most guys you know will never have the balls to deal with this
All the stress about the opposite sex. All the anxiety spent worrying about what other people may think of them and all the misdirected energy will be a blissful irrelevance.
Fear is a protective reaction of the human mind; it is there to serve a purpose. When you approach the edge of a tall building, fear is very much your best friend. This action of the central nervous system will dramatically extend the duration of your life in situations like that.
Where this process falls down is when it tries to force protection on you in environments where you are not really at risk. Walking up to a beautiful woman that you are attracted to and simply talking to her does not put your life at risk and yet our mind tells us that we are doing something very dangerous.
Fear is natural, but sometimes it is misplaced.
Often it will put our limbs into a state of paralysis to force us to avoid the danger. If you have ever attempted to approach a girl when you feel like this and have experienced just how intense the sensations of panic are you will understand that I am not exaggerating here.
A recent survey has revealed that the number one biggest fear in America today is public speaking; do you know what came in second? Death was the second most common fear. What this tells us is that people fear speaking in public more than they fear dying!
If you are serious about smashing through the walls of your comfort zone. To be come a master at attracting women then you need to put the ground work in. Join my Seduction University and see how easy it can be!